I’ve spent a lot of time recently with my former wife, and the first thing she told me was how much I’d changed.
She was a lot calmer than before.
But as she was describing her own transformation, her voice broke and she sobbed.
“She never knew what it was like,” she said.
When I was married, she was my love and her greatest supporter.
Now, she couldn’t handle the thought of the divorce.
And that’s why I had to come up with a way to resolve this for her.
I’ve known her for 30 years.
When we were married, we were in a tough divorce.
But we had the same mother, the same father, the exact same upbringing.
It’s not that we couldn’t do it.
But the way we did it changed her, and she had to deal with it.
That’s what she was going through now.
The way we handled it, she felt betrayed and it was a terrible thing for her to go through.
My wife and I are good friends, but now she’s in a position where she has to deal in real life with this.
I know she’s thinking about that, and I think she’s very worried about that.
And so she’s going to make that decision.
That was a huge shock to me.
I thought that we were doing everything in our power to make it work, and we had everything in place to try to get this done.
But now it’s a different ballgame.
I’m not going to be able to say, I’m just going to give her what she wants, or we’re going to have a divorce, and then she has nothing.
That wasn’t the way it should have worked.
I want her to have this, and it has to be in the right hands.
I don’t want her feeling like she’s lost.
She’s been a good wife to me for 30 plus years.
But she’s been so supportive of me, and there’s nothing wrong with that.
I feel like I have a very strong bond with her, so I’ve given her everything I’ve got, and if anything, she’s not going anywhere.
My marriage was really tough.
But this divorce, I don.
It has nothing to do with her.
My son was in the room when we were divorcing.
And he has a strong bond to his dad, and he has his mother.
He said he didn’t have any emotion, and now that he’s seeing his mom and my dad, he’s crying and he’s angry.
He wants me to say what I want to say.
So I’m going to say it, and that’s what I’m doing.
I have to say I want you to know that, when we divorce, you are going to get my full custody and support, and you are not going away without my full support.
If anything, it will give me a chance to rebuild my life.
I’ll be in your life for the rest of your life, and this will be your home.
And I don`t want that to happen.
So if you’re thinking of taking me out, you have to realize that I don’ t want to go away.
I will not give up my son for nothing.
And if you think I can’t live with you anymore, I won`t be able do that either.
My ex-wife has a new home, a new husband, a house.
She is now a mom.
She`s a better mother to my son than I ever could be.
I think that’s one of the biggest things that made our marriage work.
So now that we`re divorced, I have three new children.
I can`t even imagine living without my ex-husband.
And my wife, she`s not going.
But that`s what she wanted, and as long as she`re not with me, I`m not going either.
I love her so much, and what I do is I will go out and do my job, and do the right thing for my kids, and get my life back together.
My children love me, my wife loves me, but that` s not going back.
I had my own life.
Now I`ll have my own home, and my kids will have a better life.
My kids are going places, and so are I. So my kids and I will be able walk down the aisle with our moms and dads, and everything will be right.
But I know my kids know what I`ve done for them, and they`re going to know I did the right things.
My family, they`ll never forgive me.
They`ll know that I`d be a better dad.
I`re proud to be a father, and a husband, and to be doing what I love doing, and doing it well.
I did what I loved doing.
It was the right decision for both of us